Women Re-shaping the World!

So after seeing Paul Keens Douglas live for the first time in my life, fantastic show by the way, my girls and I went to a local bar and restaurant to just lime for a bit.

Sometimes things aren't what the appear to be; but how do you figure out what they really are?

Well the day started the minute my Japanese friend Daijiro wished me happy birthday (if you are a Westerner who is living or has lived in the East, and you love birthdays you know it is a two day affair- Eastern birthday + Western Birthday), please don't tell me I am the only person who does this.

We have all at one time or another had the opportunity to be someone's side squeeze, some of us have capitalized on it, some are capitalizing still, and some of us just never cared to be. 

What would make a woman become a side squeeze is not written down in any book of laws anywhere. There is no given person, situation or anything else; sometimes it happens and sometimes it does not.

What would make a woman opt not to be a side squeeze though is perhaps a bit clearer...a bit.

Yes yessssssss many times you turn on the television and get very close to dying of laughter because of what a guest, host, reporter...is wearing.

Many people who go on television or are regulars on television are still quite unaware of the fact that there are some things you simply should not wear on tv (the same for persons giving public lectures etc.). Yes you might look all the 'rave' or whatever the word being used now is on the street but on tv you simply end up looking like Bozo the clown. Be careful!

Clothes that are loud and confusing distracts your audience and believe you me nothing you say is heard.

I find the following suggestions quite helpful, hope you do too.

Myself & I...we got some figuring out to do...

Foolish me
Thinking that I could escape
This thing called
Your memory

Today my little nation was stunned by the news of a double murder, two women were shot dead in Campden Park.

One of these women, Ingrid Jack was my school mate.

Sweetheart;

I'll be you traditional wife. I'll cook, I'll clean (or at least try), wash your dirty clothes, iron them if you wish, take care of your children, help you entertain your friends, and of course entertain you too ;-).

Are you going to be my traditional husband?

Will you keep a level head at all times and seek God out in moments of doubt, and trust in him to give you the knowledge and the strength to keep our home together?

I am not a lesbian but seriously most men bore me... I am bored to tears.

I would like to find the principal of that 'man school' that keeps producing these clones, these drones that suck the very life and joy out of me sometimes.

Sometimes I write; but mostly I live
I write about hurts, joys, and sorrow, and although they might not all be mine..
They are real to me
So sometimes I write; but  I mostly live.

Some of us will always believe in the good in people, on any day we will be the first to say "But he/she isn't THAT bad".  We act as if we are the gate keepers  to anything good in our fellow men, and we are to always guard it no matter what.