Do we train ourselves to accept cheaters?
I know we aren’t all perfect and so people make mistakes, but why does it seem as though it is always easier for women to forgive a partner who cheats than for a man to do so.
Do we train ourselves to accept cheating as a natural part of a relationship. We are constantly saying things like:
“You probably had him for a night but now he coming home to me”
“You might have to ring but I have the man”
“You only the side squeeze I am his main woman”
We say things like this to the ‘other woman’, we stay it with our friends, its in our poetry , it is in our songs it’s everywhere. It is almost as though we know longer believe that we are enough for any one man and so we give men the authority to walk all over us.
These situations are hard to get out of I know that for a fact but we need to try harder, once is a mistake on his part, 2, 3, 4 times no no no we just acting foolish now.
Perhaps we need to reprogramme our thoughts. Let him know he needs to have one woman and that’s us or he could simply keep walking.
©Adriana S. King
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I totally agree... i hate to see women saying stuff like "it's just sex with you, but i have his heart" when they fully well know if they truly had his heart he wouldn't be out looking for anything from anyone else. We need to set our standards and realize that we deserve much more than a shared man. It's all or nothing