Men Who Cheat, Army Men, The Women Who Love Cheaters...


Men Who Cheat:
I was speaking to a good friend last night who made the statement that women in a certain country have seemingly resigned themselves to the 'fact' that ' all men cheat'. These women would therefore date a man even if they have evidence that he is cheating on them. They have no problem whatsoever putting up with his mediocrity, because they have convinced themselves that all men are cheaters. It is one thing if your spouse cheats on you once, but if cheating becomes a habit would you simply sit back and accept it?



Army Men: 
Army men seem to be getting a bad rap these days because of a few boys who are trying to be men. I have some very good friends and a few cousins in the armed forces and they are not perfect so I hope they are doing their best to keep order in their lives. There is a general perception that most men in the armed forces are players, they entertain two and three women at the same time simply because they can, or is it because the women allow them to do so?

The Women Who Love Cheaters: 

Like I said before your spouse cheats on you once, you can write it off as a genuine mistake, twice, thrice... hmm Is he simply so dumb that he makes the same mistake a million times?  I like to think that people treat us the way we allow them to, we can't make someone respect, love or care for us, but if they are in our lives doing things to hurt us then we are the ones who are allowing it. I pray daily for the strength to walk away from people who and situations that do not help me to grow, or bring me unhappiness. I am not saying you walk away from people and situations simply because there is a rough patch, but how many rough patches are needed before your self-worth kicks in and you understand that you are worthy of respect, love, and loyalty?



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One Response so far.

  1. Drishna says:

    Awesome piece and accurate observations.

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