Women Re-shaping the World!

Yesterday, our family was shaken up by the fact that a mother/grandmother/sister/niece/aunt... had passed.

I have said it a million times and I would continue to say it, we seem to lose all 'humanity' when someone dies...especially under tragic circumstances.

"I'm his Wifey, you just on the side."

"I'm his wife, he comes home to me."

"She might have the ring but I have the man."

"Perhaps you should value yourself more and find a man of your own."

"I don't want your husband is he who wants me."

 I could go on and on and on and on, but my stomach weak.

I am fed up of the foolish arguments... women behaving as though men are 'mindless drones'. The main squeezes and the wives seem to think they have the upper hand while the Side Squeezes seem to think the same.

There is a comment floating around on Facebook, written by a friend of mine, that reads something like this: Shout-out to all the wives at home waiting on their husbands to return after a day of cheating. The comment was written in response to a post in which, you've guessed it Side Squeezes were being forced into the limelight.

Let's end the chit chat and face a few facts here:

I will never, ever tell anyone to make all the details of their personal life public, but there are some exceptions.

In almost any article on relationships you see one thing over and over- if your partner is really serious they will make your relationship known to others.

Yes, there WILL be some evidence of this relationship somewhere. They might take you out on dates, introduce you to their peeps and all that. With all the computer stuff that we have now, a picture of you or both of you might show up on their Whatsapp, Facebook, Twitter...

A 'public statement' is his or her way of saying, "Yes, I know I am cute but I am taken. No thanks!"

When a man or woman is reluctant to acknowledge their relationship with you you better take warning.  Most likely they running a game on your or on someone else. Long story short you might want to think twice about how committed you become to this person and to the relationship.

 Like I said before you do not make public every detail of your dating life, but if someone is serious about you they will let others know.

Guard your hearts against players and playettes.

"I was raped!"

What were you wearing?
Were you wearing that pencil skirt with the slit at the side?
Or, was it the yellow blouse that makes your eyes look like sunshine?
I bet you were wearing one of those.
I told you they made you look sexy.

"I was raped!"