We have all at one time or another had the opportunity to be someone's side squeeze, some of us have capitalized on it, some are capitalizing still, and some of us just never cared to be. 

What would make a woman become a side squeeze is not written down in any book of laws anywhere. There is no given person, situation or anything else; sometimes it happens and sometimes it does not.

What would make a woman opt not to be a side squeeze though is perhaps a bit clearer...a bit.

There comes a time in the life of most young women when they look at themselves in the mirror and say "hell no I am worth far more than this". It is a point where she takes a look around her and figures that she was practically giving her milk away it is about time somebody buys the whole cow. 

This takes a lot of courage and strength so it has to be a daily thing, some of these side squeeze situations could be very alluring while some leave you thinking "who this idiot thinks I am, seriously that's his best offer".

I meet a lot of girls my age who are just not impressed with the pickings, but would rather hold their breath while waiting on Mr Right ...they are not planning to sign up to the side squeeze club anytime soon.  They would rather have lunch with their girlfriends than be the girl who is sneaked off to dinner in that little secluded spot.

Some of us enjoy being the side squeeze because we figure relationships are just too much hassle and the men aren't all that anyways,  yea sure he is cute and treats us well but the day the main squeeze walks out we know we will be begging her to go back to him.  So why bother?  hmmm

Of course some of us wait patiently for this day to come anticipating our promotion to the main squeeze.

I used to find these proposals flattering, but now I just find them insulting.