So today I was in the bank, yeah you know the bank right? lol Of course you don't know which bank.

Anyways, I am in the bank and a gentle man and a young lady come in. The bank is full, I mean ram packed, but I notice them because they call a teller away from her customer. My farseness goes into prime mode because I have been in the bank line now for about forty minutes and any thing other than standing still is entertaining.

Allow me now to try summarize what takes place.

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Some things you just don't do.

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 Angela Cropper


Feature Address delivered by Angela Cropper to Humanities and Education
Graduating Students at the University of the West Indies, St. Augustine,
Trinidad, 2007.

 

 May I begin by thanking the Faculty for honoring me with an invitation to present the Feature Address at this Prize Award Ceremony. I am so pleased to be here to share this moment with these high performers! I congratulate the students for the choice they have made to pursue their course of education in the Faculty of Humanities and Education, and for their achievements which we are celebrating this evening.





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Sins of Caribbean Culture

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Today I went into a government department, which I suppose is not very 'popular' at the end of the month; and was reminded that sometimes there really is no service in Customer Service.


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No Service in 'Customer Service'

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99% of Breast Cancer Tissue Contained This Everyday Chemical (NOT Aluminum)




By Dr. Mercola
New research examining parabens found in cancerous human breast tissue points the finger at antiperspirants and other cosmetics for increasing your risk of breast canceri.
The research, which is also reviewed in an editorial published in the Journal of Applied Toxicology, looked at where breast tumors were appearing, and determined that higher concentrations of parabens were found in the upper quadrants of the breast and axillary area, where antiperspirants are usually appliedii.
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Parabens and Breast Cancer

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What is a Contemporary Caribbean Woman?
by Natalie McGuire



“These Women are not playing History’s game, and they refuse to be trapped in a dream” – Annie Paul (1998)

Market vendor women, dancing women, women carrying baskets of fruit on their head, women wearing aprons. These are the dominating images of the female in ‘Caribbean Art’ that adorns our gallery walls, hotel rooms, and gift shop souvenirs. Depictions of women as subservient, poor, not particularly attractive, and all from the same ethnic background. If someone never had contact with the Caribbean other than these images, they would possibly be somewhat disappointed when visiting to find a scarcity of women, as such, in any island.
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Caribbean women in Art

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Heritage Ride is a series I was able to be a part of a few years ago. The videos might not be available to persons who are not on Facebook, sorry.

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?v=1138466860250&set=t.1184731197&type=3
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Heritage Ride

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Seven Things I've Learned From 20 Years Of Marriage


Shaun Egan/Getty Images

When Jenna Goudreau, who is getting married in a few weeks, recently invited FORBES colleagues to share their best advice for the bride and groom (or couple) on their wedding day, several staffers fired back with one word: “Elope!”
I heartily disagree. Next month, my husband and I will celebrate our 20th wedding anniversary and we both look back on the day we got married as the second happiest day of our lives. (The first was when our son was born, one day before our fifth anniversary.)
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Marriage Lessons

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I was at a function recently, a little community activity, and was having a chat with a friend about how good it was that the DJ had chosen to play 'back in time music'. You know those old songs that you listen to that just put you in a mood to chat, and laugh with your friends. The kind of music that would make you grab somebody and just twirl them around a dance floor, and they won't mind. Not the grind up on somebody music, or the shoot up somebody music...no no music that your pastor and his wife could groove to and not feel any shame or have any fear of damnation. :)

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Please Stop Mr. DJ!!

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8 Etiquette Tips To Keep In Mind (click on topic to visit the original post)


Wherever you are, whoever you are with, and whatever you are doing, keep these 8 etiquette tips in mind, and you’ll do great for yourself in life!
1. SMILE
Smile and the world will smile back at you. Or not. But the important thing is you did smile and that shows your good nature. So smile and let your smile attract some goodwill from the others.
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Etiquette Tips

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For Those In The LA AREA – Come Out to Support Caribbean Culture & Caribbean People’s Historical Contributions


Email from: Reese Charleswell


WE ARE THE CARIBBEAN: Panel Discussion & Celebration 

Weschester - The WE ARE THE CARIBBEAN: Panel Discussion & Celebration of Caribbean-American Heritage Month will be held on Saturday June 2, 2012 at 2PM at The Theater inside of Piccolo’s Bookstore, located at 6081 Center Drive, Weschester, CA 90045, (Howard Hughes Parkway & Sepulveda Blvd).


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We are the Caribbean

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How to Wear Fishnet Stockings Without Looking like a Woman of the Night



Fishnet stockings, once the domain of women of the night, have been brought to the fashion fore front and can be seen on runways and on the streets of large cities. While many women are hesitant to wear this style because of the fear of looking too risqué, there are ways to incorporate this look into a respectable outfit to add a touch of style and flair. Here's how to wear fishnet stockings without looking like a woman of the night:
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On Fishnet Stockings

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Haiti - Diplomacy : Two young Haitian, CARICOM Youth Ambassador
01/05/2012 11:45:44


Haiti - Diplomacy : Two young Haitian, CARICOM Youth Ambassador


The Directorate of Youth and of the insertion (DJI) and the Ministry of Youth, presented during a ceremony last week, as part of Youth Ambassador Program of the Youth, established by the DJI, the two new young Haitian ambassadors, Nickson Athis and Cindy Ferla Morquette to CARICOM (Caribbean Community). Was present at the ceremony, many celebrities, among others: Ambassador of the Bahamas, representatives of UNICEF, the Minister of MJSAC, the Director of the Youth Parliament in Haiti and the Director of the youth Roodly Simon who declared "We realized this ceremony to show the public [...] our willingness to go forward and allow these Ambassadors to have the opportunity to advocate for other youth at the level the Caribbean region."
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Youth Ambassadors- Haiti

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Testimonies: Dating an alcoholic

by Sarah Cook

How do you know when you're dating an alcoholic? Better yet, how do you avoid dating one in the first place?
The answer is fairly simple. If you're in a relationship with someone who's always drinking, drunk, or drained from drinking the night before, odds are, they have a problem with alcohol.
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Are you dating an alcoholic?

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I was in the shower a few minutes ago, the tv was on and audible...a commercial came on talking about some sorta "relay"; I gathered that it was a bit like an answering machine for your door...something to ward off intruders.

I had to laugh.

The voice of the system asks- "Can I help you?".

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Knock Knock

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A happy twist in the tale of literature's great outsider

A blue plaque will honour Jean Rhys, whose life was marked by alcoholism, prostitution and doomed affairs

Jean Rhys
 Today, the author will receive some recognition for her contribution to post-colonial literature when English Heritage unveils a blue plaque at the London home she shared with the second of her three husbands. Rhys's champions, who remain few nearly 33 years after her death, believe the small honour is long overdue, and will go some way to restore the reputation of one of English literature's more complex writers.


"Rhys was one of those authors who challenges readers and as a result is easier to forget," says Lilian Pizzichini, whose biography of the author, The Blue Hour: A Portrait of Jean Rhys, was published in 2009. "A lot of the reviews of my book said I'd been seduced by her, that I should have taken a moral position. I found that astonishing. Why should I take a moral position?"

Rhys was always an outsider. "She falls between so many camps," Pizzichini explains. "She's not white, she's not black. She's classless. So it's hard for people to get a handle on her. She was an elusive, a solitary figure, who was never part of a set."

She was born Ella Gwendoline Rees Williams in Dominica in 1890. The daughter of a Welsh physician and a white Creole of Scottish descent, she moved to Britain in her late teens and enrolled at the Royal Academy of Dramatic Art. Mocked for her Caribbean accent, she left for a life of bit parts, chorus lines and travelling companies under her stage name, Jean Rhys.

Pretty and needy, Rhys attracted a string of men upon whom she would come to depend. In 1919, she married a Dutch journalist and moved to Paris. They split after she began an affair with the writer Ford Madox Ford. Abandonment by Ford sent her into a deep depression and she developed a dependence on alcohol and men, some of whom paid her for sex, and she had an abortion. She was only helped out of the hole – and into writing – by Ford's earlier recognition in her of a powerful combination of her colonial perspective with a distinctive "stream of consciousness" technique. Their doomed relationship inspired her first novel, Quartet, published in 1928.

Rhys returned to London in the same year and later married her literary agent, Leslie Tilden Smith. More books followed and the couple lived for two years at Paultons House, on the square of the same name in Chelsea. It was here that Rhys flourished as a writer and where she completed Good Morning, Midnight. Like much of her writing, it portrayed a mistreated, vulnerable woman. "She really interrogated the position of the female urban outsider," Pizzichini says. "She was so far ahead of her time."

But critics hated the gritty urban underworld she depicted, as well as her sparse style. "People were affronted by her unladylike behaviour," Pizzichini says. "She wrote graphically about prostitution and abortion and how easy it is to slip into a world of predatory men."

At Paultons Square, Rhys's plaque will be one of only a dozen or so English Heritage unveils each year. But residents offered mainly blank looks when asked about their former neighbour. "Isn't she a scientist?" asked one woman yesterday. "I didn't know she lived here."

After Tilden Smith's death in 1945, Rhys married for a third time, and in 1960 moved to Devon, where she wrote Wide Sargasso Sea, published in 1966, and died in 1979. It was this novel, which portrays the first Mrs Rochester's Caribbean childhood, that brought her fame, earning greater recognition than herself.

Additional reporting by Charlie Cooper

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Jean Rhys

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